It is a common story of a regular human life that people are often nervous and feel upset over some minor troubles and when it turns out that everything is fine, they start worrying over something else. It is really a bad habit that can cause bodily and emotional exhaustiveness and depletion of immune system.
There is certainly no reason ever to worry about something. Of course you are a human being, not some heartless cyborg and it is absolutely fine to show sympathy to other people and it doesn’t make you exhausted and lead to illness while worries are the display of fear.
I think a person should act in accordance with their philosophy and the things they believe in in any situation. This provides confidence in the fact that a person does everything right motivated by the best intentions. No matter what the result is it is the matter of choice that seemed the best earlier.
Living with a clear mind and immaculate conscience is the example of pure happiness despite the fact most of the people believe it is a back breaking labor. It is a joy that imbues the heart and fills one’s life with a good purpose.
Clearing your heart from all the kinds of negative thought, doubts and fears is the best way to achieve calm and peace of mind. If we have both good and evil side in our personality then it is necessary to fight this mischievous side and regain control of it every day.
The more clear your heart is the more balanced and relaxed you become.
Another good way to get rid of worries is to set and make clear a specific goal and concentrate on achieving it. Keeping one in mind and constantly adjusting your acts according to your goals can help you avoid unnecessary neuroses. Doing things that goes against your personal ambitions can seriously weaken your mentality and lead to constant nervousness and irritation.
Science provides an interesting approach to this problem as well. Scientists say that all the minor irritations are caused by serious troubles that remain unresolved and the associated rueful feelings you may suppress.
There are a lot of reasons for a person to get worried if some of their needs are not satisfied. For example if you want people to like and appreciate you and in fact few people seem to be interested in communicating with you currently your day might be easily ruined from the very morning.
If personal freedom is the most valuable need for you and somebody is trying to limit you in time or place you will probably start being irritated about it or in the worst case, show aggression.
Excessive perfectionism may also become an obstacle for you to achieve happiness although it really helps you improve personal qualities. However sometimes you start demanding perfection from people surrounding you and this can lead to total alienation with your friends. Looks like another reason to worry, huh?
Anyway in order to start a new calm and peaceful life and reach harmony you may need to realize what is hindering you in solving this most difficult issue and to eliminate it as soon as possible to open your heart to changes for the good.