They say that it is not a problem at all to build relationships. The most difficult task is to maintain them. We fall in love but we tend to make too many mistakes and sooner or later our relations do not work. It happens quite often and we do not know what to do. Strangely enough but it happens so that our love for someone is accompanied with fear, disappointment and even desperation. Why so? Well, obviously you do something wrong or probably your feelings are wrong. It means that you try to persuade yourself as well as your partner in something that does not exist. Sometimes we ostensibly love somebody while the feelings are not true. It happens when we just need someone to be with us. We just want someone to take care, pay attention and support when we need it. We do appreciate it but our feeling can be deceptive indeed. If so you may find yourself some time later in desperation without any idea why it happens.